| Introduction |
| I am very lucky to have lots of great friends, who will
stand by me no matter what. I have knowing some of my friends since
primary school, now that is a long time. I also made some good friends
at college too. I am lucky because all my friends know that I am gay
and don't care at all. I think that if anything they like me more
because of it. They can tell me things, that they could never tell
a straight person. |
| What does a friend mean to me? |
| To me a friend is someone who loves you. Who will do
more or less anything for you. You will do more or less anything for
them. Someone who likes you for what you are and not for what they
would like you to be. Someone who thinks the world of you. You also
think the world of them. Someone who will stand up for you. Someone
who will have a laugh, or a good cry with when you or they need it.
That is what a friend is to me. |
| My friends and some stuff about them |
|
Name: Alex.
Town: Newcastle.
Country: England. |
Alex is the person that I have been speaking to for
the longest on the net. One day not long after, setting up this
homepage, I checked my email, to find the longest email I had
ever seen. At first we just sent emails to each other, because back
then I did not have ICQ. I just wish I still had copies of
them.
Since then I have only got to meet up with him twice. Once in August
2000. And also in 2003, when David Orange (my boyfriend at the time)
and me went to the Gareth Gates and Will Young concert in Newcastle. |
|
Name: Jamie.
Town: Glasgow.
Country: Scotland. |
I have known Jamie the longest, we both went to Killearn
Primary School with each other. Then we went to Balfron High School
together. We were in most of the same classes in First and Second
year. In Third and Fourth year we did a number of the same classes,
but for the life of me, I can’t now remember which ones.
We both came out at much the same time. If it had not been for
him and this brother John, who is also gay, it would have taken
me a lot longer to come out.
We’re still great friends to this day, we make sure that
we meet up whenever I am up in Glasgow seeing my family. |
|
Name: Jarred.
Town: Fort Myers.
Country: USA. |
He found me via my David Beckham website. He then
added me to this AIM user list. Since then we have been speaking
to each other on the net, for hours at a time, more or less everyday.
He loves Sophie Ellis - Bextor and of course David Beckham. Thank
god for David or we would have not have got speaking to each other.
I just wish that he did not stay so far away. Because we got on
so well. I feel like I have known him for years, because we can
tell each other more or less anything. Oh and he is really fit which
also helps. |
|
Name: Lee.
Country: Israel. |
We started chatting to each other
via OUTeverywhere on the 24th December 2003. He's a really nice guy. I also think
he's well fit, which I am sure he will not mind me saying. |
|
Name: Lhyam.
Town: Glasgow.
Country: Scotland.
|
I can't believe just how long I have known Lhyam
for. I have been speaking to him since we was 14. He is now 18,
which makes me feel very old indeed. I remember when he first started
to speak, he was always going, on and on about this website. Even
when he was 14, he could do better website's then me.
But in all the time that I have known him, I have ever heard this
voice or meet him. But I am going to make sure that I change that
this year. |

|
Name: Margaret.
Town: Glasgow.
Country: Scotland. |
I first met Margaret when I was at Stow college doing
an NC in Computing. She was also dong the same course. We started
speaking to each other in the first number of weeks, of being at
Stow College.
She was one of the first people at college that I told that I was
gay. She did not care at all and has helped me a lot over the years.
We lost touch for while, but then one day she phoned me up and
told me that she had moved down to Peterborough. I met up with her
and since then we speak all the time. I just wish that I could get
to meet up with her more often. |
|
Name: Matthew.
Town: Stamford.
Country: England. |
I got speaking to Matthew via gaydar of all places.
Which I find very funny, because I can't stand that website. But
it can't be so bad after all.
I have only known him for a short time, but I can tell that we're
both going to be great friends. We have so much in common. He likes Neighbours so I could tell from day one that we were going to get on great!!
He thinks that my "Scottish accent is unreal" that's
a quote from his website BTW. So I did not make that one up. But
you have no why of doubling checking now, since his website is no
longer on-line. |
|
Name: Rob.
Town: Glasgow.
Country: Scotland. |
I first met Rob in Delmonica's, on New Year's Eve.
He came over to me and said: "Are you Gordon Valentine?"
Lucky not many people say it to me. If they did, I think I would
have to stop going out on the scene in Glasgow.
He is now a good friend of mine. |
|
Name: Tom.
Town: Richmond, Virginia.
Country: USA.
|
I first got speaking to him via AIM. I have no idea
how he found my username. But who cares, as I got a great friend
out of it.
I don't get to see him that often with him living in the USA. He
does like to come over to this country as often as he can. So when
it all goes to plan we great to meet up with each other. |